sumerianmagic:

Prophetic Dream

This sigil causes prophetic dreams. It can be inscribed upon parchment and left beneath a pillow to receive visions in one’s sleep. It’s purpose was to allow a friend with no natural penchant or talent for divination to experience it’s wonders.

Prophecy is a gift so few possess, yet so many aspire to. As beautiful as it seems, it is all too easy to overwhelm oneself by constant inquiry. Very often the antiphon is a chorus our ears will not accept.

Do not ask a question you do not truly want the answer to.

logun-vakt-maga-lokison:

So, this illustration is really powerful to me. I can’t stop looking at it. I’m struggling not to cry, and clutching this stone that I associated with Sigyn just this morning . It conveys so much of their agony. It hurts me.

Illustration of Sigyn and Loki by John Egerkrans in the book Norse Gods.

Okay, I have to say a thing: Can I just… I’m literally trying not to cry. Someone abusive in my past was obsessed with Sigyn, but reduced her, like Marvel, to a nitwit who blindly loved Loki regardless of transgressions and emotional abuse, as she so often idolized with so many of the relationships she sought to imitate and force onto her… targets. This, I feel, brings so much more life to the Goddess of Fidelity . The agony in this illustration. You do not blindly do this shit for someone you don’t truly care for. True Fidelity must be earned, not gained through tricks. Blind faith in abusers is sickness and dependency, not fidelity and loyalty. Fidelity and loyalty is earned through hard work and built upon trust. Trusting a trickster sounds foolish, but you don’t eternally hold a bowl to save your lover as best you can from agony without them truly deserving it. I’m not saying much on Loki here, aside from I believe he is a god of change, not evil, or malice, or any of the other cruel insults wrought in misunderstanding. People who fear the change, and the other, and the odd might call it evil, but it’s a necessary part of life. The cycle of life, death, and rebirth. You can try to hold it off as long as you can, but the rot that forms will be worse than the cleansing fire of change. This is the principle I live by.

Antifascist. Nazis not welcome. Do not reblog if you are racist or alt-right.

hexereiwitch:

REBLOG THIS IF:

  • You are a witch
  • You post witchy content
  • You are an ACTIVE witchblr
  • You are an LGBT+ witch

If you post about:

  • Hellenic deities
  • Fire magick
  • Palmistry
  • Spirit work/necromancy
  • Chaos magick
  • Shadow work
  • Astral travel/dreamweaving

I’m looking for some more blogs to follow!

relationships are not earned

sexetc:

thatdiabolicalfeminist:

We often think of relationships as things we can – or even have to – earn. 

This causes two major problems:

  1. believing we are entitled to a relationship because we’ve “earned” it
  2. perceiving all rejection as a failure to “earn” someone’s love, attraction, etc.

While healthy relationships do require effort, a relationship is not founded on a list of Good Things You Have Done.

Sure, if you’re a jerk people are less likely to want to be around you, and sure, if you do nice things someone might appreciate them. But it’s not automatic. Do nice things because it’s nice to do nice things. Change hurtful behaviour because it’s good to avoid hurting people. Don’t do that stuff solely because you think it will earn you something.

Relationships are not simple transactions. Even when you are hiring someone, they have the right to decide at any point that the relationship or position you’re offering isn’t right for them – and they might, even if you’ve offered all you can, even if you’ve been nice.

It’s not cut-and dried, it’s not a vending machine. You don’t put good
deeds (or money) in and get love (or sex, or friendship) out, and you don’t put bad
deeds in and get rejection out. Those are a few ingredients of many; a relationship does not automatically occur or fail in their presence.

People come to relationships with their own sets of needs and desires and abilities; and all those factors interact with the needs, desires, and abilities of the other person or people in the relationship. Sometimes it works out well, sometimes it works out less well. But it’s a lot more complicated than whether or not you “earned” it.

Sometimes relationships can be tricky! It’s important to be mindful and caring of both your partner and yourself.

Read: The Reality of High School Relationships