A few things:

localbadgirl:

01. Gypsy is a slur & there is no “positive” or “acceptable” way of using it if you aren’t Romani. It should not be part of your vocabulary – the same goes for the term “gypped”. If you want to talk about the slur censor it or simply call it “the g slur.”

02. Anti Romani racism exists everywhere and there is a slur for the us in every language. Gypsy is the slur used in the English language but there is also Zigan, Tigan, Cigan, Gitano, Zigeuner, etc. – a lot of them stem from the Greek word for “slave” and are considered even worse than the Gypsy slur. However all of them are still slurs and shouldn’t be used by you if you aren’t Romani.

03. Gypsy has never been anything other than a derogatory slur against Romani that has been screamed at us while we have been branded, enslaved, hunted down, murdered, put through a genocide and a holocaust, segregated and discriminated against. 

04. Romani is the proper name of the people that are being targeted by the G slur. Some people write it as Rromani which is also correct. The term Roma/Rroma can be used too, however not all Romani are Roma.

05. Romani and Romanian do not mean the same thing. Romani are the people that are being targeted by the G slur and we are brown people originally from India. Romanians are people from the European country Romania.

06. The official term for racism directed towards Romani is called “Antiziganism”, that term however is offensive since it includes the word “Zigan” which is a horrible slur against Romani. Please do not use that term and instead use “Anti-Romani racism”, “Anti-Romanism”, etc.

07. Anti-Romani racism is very extreme in Europe (segregation in housing, education and health care, forced sterilizations, evictions and demolition of settlements, police brutality, etc), which is why we even received the title of “Europe’s Most Hated”, but it’s not an exclusively European thing. Anti-Romani racism exists in America and Canada as well. (Canada even has an immigration ban on Romani.)

08. “My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding” does not display actual Romani people as far as I have heard so it does not represent Romani people/culture at all.

09. Your believes that Romani “don’t want to work”, “don’t want to send their children to school”, “steal children”, “are dirty”, “genetically prone to crime”, “are lazy”, etc. are nothing but racist stereotypes and left over Nazi propaganda. All of them are untrue as well. (Also: Romani would love to work and go to school but the extreme discrimination against us in the field of education makes that very hard. And the widely spread traditional anti-Romani attitudes and prejudices don’t make it any easier either.)

10. Stereotypes such as that all Romani women are “sexual temptresses” and promiscuous disregarding of age are obviously incorrect too. Virginity is actually considered important in Romani culture. Believing in those stereotypes is very harmful and dangerous as well because despite Romani being only a minority in most European countries we make up the highest % when it comes to sex trafficking victims.

11. Romani culture doesn’t have anything to do with witchcraft, wicca, paganism, etc. We didn’t create tarot, palm reading or crystal balls either. You can stop calling yourself a “Gypsy Witch” and faking Romani heritage now. The only reason why assumptions like that came to exist is because of racist believes and lies spread by the church. Our skills with medical herbs and palm reading were seen as “evidence of heresy” and from the 16th century onward we were outlawed, expelled and persecuted, culminating in the organized killing of our people. 

12. Fortune teller costumes are racist. Romani women have always been stereotyped as fortune tellers which is why the stereotypical image of a fortune teller is always linked with Romani women – dark skin, messy black hair, a big nose, a “weird” accent, a headscarf, big hoop earrings, gold coins added to clothes and an “untrustworthy/deceiving” nature, etc. (A lot of people even use the term “fortune teller” like a synonym for the G slur nowadays.) A person’s race/ethnicity is not a costume, so if you ever consider dressing up as a fortune teller chose something different. 

If you are Romani too please feel free to add things onto this list and please correct me if I made any mistakes.

Tips on good meditation?

gainux:

🌱 stretch first or do yoga

🌱 remove uncomfortable clothing and jewelry

🌱 put your electronic devices on silent out of reach

🌱 create a meditation space, somewhere relaxing and beautiful

🌱 focus on your posture

🌱 sit or lie in a comfortable position

🌱 become aware of your surroundings

🌱 live in the present, don’t lose yourself in thinking of the past or the future

🌱 become mindful of any discomfort you feel during meditation, try your best to ignore it or fix it with the least amount of movement possible

🌱 focus on breathing deeply and comfortably

🌱 become aware of each piece of your body, the flow of your being as part of the universe

🌱 slowly relax every part of your body separately from the toes up

🌱 try to do just a 5 minute meditation starting out

🌱 try to meditate in silence or using only nature sounds

🌱 close your eyes or at least allow your gaze to soften

🌱 focus on your inner self, explore your own mind

🌱 if you find yourself falling asleep during meditation, it is probably best to just sleep and try mediating once you are rested

🌱 dismiss any negative, angry thoughts by distancing yourself from them

🌱 allow your emotions to become placid

🌱 allow your mind to wander, but steer it away from negative thoughts towards happy ones

🌱 you can repeat a mantra in your head if you do not wish to allow your mind to wander

🌱 find happiness when you meditate

🌱 don’t try too hard, meditation should be relaxing

🌱 get up slowly after meditation, take your time to come back

Banishment Magick 🔮

lunaesteria:

Banishing is the act of forcefully removing something, or putting an end to something. Banishing generally involves three different parts: the actual banishment, cleansing to clear out any lingering negativity, and protection from further negative energy. Banishing and cleansing can sometimes be done in one swift motion. 

Things you might want to banish:

  • Negative spirits or entities
  • Negative energy
  • Bad habits
  • Negative influences in your life

Methods of Banishment:

  • Sprinkling black salt or another kind of banishing powder around your home or property
  • Anointing doors and windows with blessed or charged water
  • Burning incense in your home
  • Creating a spray and spritzing it around your home
  • Drawing sigils or symbols on your doors and windows with blessed/charged water or oils
  • Physically cleaning your space to remove dust, grime, and negativity 
  • Playing loud music – metal would be a good choice
  • Making other loud noises (slamming doors, banging pots and pans together, etc.)
  • Crafting a poppet or representation of said negative influence and burning it
  • Binding the negative influence to an object and disposing of it
  • Simply saying “get the fuck out”

Herbs for Banishment:

  • Basil, Betel Nut, Black Pepper, Black Salt,

    Cactus,

    Cayenne Pepper, Chamomile, Chili Powder, Cloves, Dragon’s Blood, Elder, Garlic, Heliotrope, Horehound, Juniper, Morning Glory, Mullein, Mugwort, Oleander, Onion, Rosemary, Rue, Sage, Sea Salt, St. John’s Wort, Thyme, Tobacco, Vinegar, Wood Betony, Yarrow Flower

Crystals for Banishment:

  • Ajoite, Ametrine, Chrysocolla, Black Tourmaline, Bloodstone, Emerald, Epidote, Fire Opal, Garnet, Halite, Hematite, Hemimorphite, Howlite, Jet, Obsidian, Onyx, Smoky Quartz, Sugilite

Planets associated with Banishment:

  • Moon, Sun, Mars, Saturn, Pluto

Celestial Bodies associated with Banishment:

  • Black Holes, Supernovae

Lunar Phases associated with Banishment:

  • Third Quarter Moon, Waning Crescent, Dark Moon, Full Moon